The Let Them Theory

요즘 유행하고 있는 팟캐스터 / 사업가 MEL ROBBINS 슨상님의 책 렛뎀이론을 읽어 보았다. 

요지는 타인의 어떤 행동/말/언지에도 그들은 그들대로 렛뎀하고, 나는 나대로 렛미하라는 것이다. 

사실 뻔한 내용인데 어떻게 베셀이 되었는가 싶기도 하지만...

말 >> 책이 조금 더 강한 분 같으심. 

 

1. This is YOUR lift. Stop letting other people's opinions ruin it. Write the book. Ask them out. Wear what you want to wear. Go surf all day. Go back to school. Drop out of school. Move. Get a dog. Book the trip. Stop drinking. Embrace your sexuality. p.90

 

2. You get one wild and precious life, so go live it in a way that makes you proud. p.106

 

3. All these people who stir up your jealousy are here to show you teh simple fact that while you have been making ecxuses, they've been putting in the reps, slowly chipping away at the boring, hard stuff. p.145 

 

4. There are three factors that I believe make great friendships possible : proximity, timing, and energy. These pillars are the invisible foundation every frienship is built on. p.161